Posts

Showing posts with the label confidence

Alone but not forgotten

Yes, I am alone. Right now I am alone at my new place. My roommate is away and I have the crib all to myself. But that is not the main idea, no. The main idea is that I have accepted the fact that I am mostly alone in this story that is my life.  I still want to live it to the fullest so I don't give a crap if no one cares that I exist. I am here, now and I will make myself known but not by using other people or by selling my soul to the devil ( or my body to influential people).  I will make it using my own strengths and thank God I have the best of them. I communicate easily and people seem to see into my soul sometimes and they know that I am not like everyone else. I am an idealist, I still hope and still dream and I don't care about the stupid rules of society. My religion is the religion of unconditional love.  That is all. That is why once you know me you can never forget me no matter how much you hate me or how much you don't like me. I am not being i...

You can be whatever you want...just not fake

Image
The thing that pisses me off a lot about people is not the fact that they are brainwashed by TV, are shallow, mean and stupid. Well, those things piss me off too but not as much as a fake person. Do not copy others! This is a friendly advice. Just be yourself. It has become a cliche but whatever...it's a fact. I like someone who has a personality of his own. Know what I mean?  For me, I know who I am. I have many things to improve but I am aware of my flaws. I am naive, childish, weird, I may be bipolar and I may suffer from social anxiety sometimes, I daydream a lot and I am clumsy, I don't act my age, I procrastinate, I am too sarcastic sometimes. But I am who I am....when people describe me all that can say is Corina is...Corina. And I am proud of that.  And don't stress too much about what others think. People will always talk shit no matter how good you are to them. But remember that envy is a form of admiration ;) Be confident in who you are but not arrogant....

How to be more charismatic

Image
You can be as ugly as a squashed bug but if you have that special something people will want to be around you. It's all about the attitude. Let's see some quick and easy tips that help make you more charismatic: - don't be afraid to feel good in your own skin. I am not suggesting that you strip, I am saying that you should feel confident no matter your shape, size, face, ethnicity and so on. Don't stand like a shy flower in a corner, bloom, be the center of attention. -speak your mind. If you have an opinion, express it. Don't just follow blindly what others say and  don't nod at every stupid thing you hear, make a difference -be positive, be optimistic, laugh a lot and make others laugh with you. No one likes an energetic vampire who drains the life out of you, people like someone full of spirit, someone that lights up the room. -engage in conversations with everyone, learn their story, listen to them. People just want to be heard, be t...