How to be more charismatic

You can be as ugly as a squashed bug but if you have that special something people will want to be around you. It's all about the attitude. Let's see some quick and easy tips that help make you more charismatic:

- don't be afraid to feel good in your own skin. I am not suggesting that you strip, I am saying that you should feel confident no matter your shape, size, face, ethnicity and so on. Don't stand like a shy flower in a corner, bloom, be the center of attention.

-speak your mind. If you have an opinion, express it. Don't just follow blindly what others say and  don't nod at every stupid thing you hear, make a difference

-be positive, be optimistic, laugh a lot and make others laugh with you. No one likes an energetic vampire who drains the life out of you, people like someone full of spirit, someone that lights up the room.

-engage in conversations with everyone, learn their story, listen to them. People just want to be heard, be that someone who listens and gives good advice.

-be expressive. Use your face and hand gestures to make the conversation more interesting and also don't forget you that the tone of your voice matters too. Communication is like 60% body language and 30% tone of voice.

-be a great storyteller. it doesn't matter what you say ( actually it does, it should be something intelligent) but how you say it. Even if you are telling a story about what you ate dinner make it sound interesting.

-be yourself and be confident about who you are. People these days hide their real selves, Let go of the fear and just be who you are supposed to be. :D people will love you. The right ones that is...others will envy you or whatever but you should not live by their standards. Do your own thing. 

CHARISMA AND CONFIDENCE GO HAND IN HAND.

So who do you think are some charismatic persons? Share with the world.