Become a pick-up artist.
Let's face it. This is a increasing problem in today's world. And I am concerned. The world is full of single, unhappy men. Some of them are weird as hell, some of them are creeps and that's a good reason for them to be alone but there are a lot of good men out there that just don't know how to pick up a girl or how to be in a relationship.
No worry. If you are one of them you are not doomed to a life of living with 20 cats. That usually happens to women. For women that are single I don't have a lot of advice. Just try to look good. Like these guys say , or whatever...what the guy that made the game says " In order for a man to be desirable by women he has to be fit, be rich, be confident, be funny, be outgoing, have ambitions, have friends and have interesting hobbies. What does a woman have to do to be desired by men? NOT BE FAT."
I'm sorry, but there is no other way. If you don't work hard you won't get anywhere. Maybe you will have this wild luck and a woman will fall in love with you out of nowhere but that doesn't usually happen in real life so you have to be determined. Do you want women in your life? Or do you want to be the creepy guys that have real dolls. But I am sure not all of you have 5000$ to buy a doll like that. So start learning and stop whining. Learn from the best. If you don't like Mystery and his methods start reading other people's work, start watching movies, videos. What do those men have and you don't besides fame and fortune and hypnotizing good looks? That's easy. Attitude, confidence. You can't buy that, you build that, you become that. Too shy? Too bad. That is for women. Men need to be strong. If you are not strong, become strong. No one likes a whiny little mamma's boy.
You don't have to understand women in order to be with one. Let me tell you...not even women understand themselves. So if a guy tries to pick up a woman by making her believe that he understands her he is either gay or a hermaphrodite. Sorry if this sounds offensive but facts are facts. Men are not made to understand women. If they say they do they might be one too. There are some things a man can understand about a woman. Her likes, her dislikes, some triggers but that's about it. Go too deep in a woman's head and it's Alice in Wonderland for you.
So what are some things you should do in order to become attractive to women and just be a true pick-up artist?
- work on your look. yep, there is no other way to be attractive. you can be ugly as a rat ran over by a truck but if you have an original look, the right clothes and accessories then it is a good start. if you are really committed into becoming an attractive man you should consider watching your diet and going to the gym. no pain, no gain.
- work on your attitude. attitude is everything! don't be whiny, needy, desperate,boring.
- don't use cheap and idiotic pickup lines. they don't work...maybe just on girls that are just like that...
- don't have unrealistic expectations. Yep, you need to dream big but not that big. Don't imagine that you will get a supermodel to be with you if you are not a model yourself.
- explore your options. maybe sometimes you are looking in the wrong direction. sometimes people have a tendency to go after the persons that don't like them and totally take for granted the ones that do like them.
- don't be afraid of the friend-zone but don't stay in it for too long. it's absolutely necessary to be friends with a girl before being in a relationship. how can she trust you? you need to be her friend first and her boyfriend after. that's available if you want to be in a long term relationship. if you just want to get laid there are girls that get paid for that ;)
- don't be boring. learn how to have a conversation. no girl in her right mind will ever want to date a guy that bores her. so do some research, find out new stuff, read personal development books, watch motivational videos. those will help you become confident and they are some good conversation subjects
- listen to her and seem interested in what she says. women like to talk about themselves. make her feel special, ask her a lot of questions but not stupid questions
- learn how to be a storyteller. if you have a boring life and have nothing to talk about don't just let that stop you getting the girl of your dreams. take any little thing that you do and make a story out of it. you like to watch movies? talk about them. if she is not interested change the subject and try and find something she does like
- be funny. women love a man who is funny
- be cool...or act cool. never act desperate. try to make her think that you can get any woman you want and that you already have lots of women waiting for you. she will get competitive and want to get your attention
- be yourself...but your improved self. you can fake it and make it but it won't last so it's better to be real, to be who you are but at your highest potential. so for others to like you, you need to learn to like yourself and always try to be the best you can be. be active and you will be attractive. no action, no passion. just do something, man. don't just sit around waiting for a miracle. get a makeover, start reading and watching videos, go out and meet people. that is all there is. be opened to change and take charge of your life.
There are a lot of things to be said about the topic but as I told you...you need to work hard if you want to accomplish something. So stop whining and start taking action. It's all about the attitude. That is the sexiest thing in a man. And his intelligence. So work on that. Good luck!
I leave you with this inspirational video:
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