Everyone left me. Now what?

Stop caring about what others think of you. Be straight faced guy. Not impressed by the opinions of others. 

Do you really feel like you are alone in the world? People stopped calling you? When they see you on the street they look the other way or they run like they saw a pack of hungry monsters? Maybe you are suffering of what I call the "I'm so whiny and I annoy everyone around me syndrome". I can safely say that I have become an expert on the topic because I suffered from it for a long, long time.

People don't have the patience or the psychological strength to listen to a person who is always complaining and playing the victim. Yes, life was rough with you. You went through the most horrible things: you lost friends, loved ones, your self-confidence, people mocked you, you were never the pretty one or the smart one, always a John Doe to everyone and even to yourself.

So what? No one's life is perfect, not by far. Yes, some people seem to have it all but they actually don't. If they did, they wouldn't still be here learning, they would be dead and in paradise dancing with the angels or whatever people believe these days.

What I am trying to say is that if you don't find the courage and motivation to move on and still live with hope is like you are already dead. And we all know that death is an irreversible process. Well, at least the one in which your body dies along with your spirit. If you just feel dead inside there is still hope. You can find a ray of light inside of you that will help you to keep on living.

We are not here to compare ourselves to others or to become better than everyone else. We are not in a competition with others, we are in a competition with ourselves! We should strive to become better persons, to reach our highest potential. That is the only thing that will truly make us happy, otherwise we will always feel like something is missing. You, and only you are responsible for your happiness. No one else. Everyone left you? Good. That means you have to learn to make it on your own. Be happy for that. Other people are not here to serve your needs, they are here to learn their own lessons and live their own lives.

I have learned the hard way that you need to become strong and you need to do your own things and be happy with who you are without trying to make everyone else happy. Not everyone will like you, not everyone will agree with you. So why waste precious energy trying to fit in when you can do amazing things by using your unique qualities and stand out!

The secret is to be detached... That is the best advice I can give you. Don't try to impress anyone, don't try to become someone else just because society or your clique wants you too. No. Be yourself. And if yourself is bad, boring or I don't know...something that you don't like, change. But when you do change do it for yourself. Do it because you have the potential, not for anyone else.

So...do you feel ready to be the main character in the story of your life?